I don't know about you but I have not met too many people that are consistently happy. Life is full of ups and downs, times of elation and deep peace and times of loss and difficult challenge. There are so many things we don't want: the pile of bills on the desk, the extra weight, the long commute, the difficult boss, the cold winter, the dishes that always have to be done, etc. The list goes on and extends even to the tendencies in ourselves: the self-judgement, the procrastination, the perfectionism etc.

All these irritations in life are like one of those children's big punching balloons with the weight at the bottom and the perverse smile. The more we push it away and punch it the more it keeps popping back up. We hope that by ignoring or pushing aside all these undesirable conditions that they will go away. In most cases they don't. They keep coming back.

What if the non-acceptance of the things we don't want is actually preventing us from achieving the things we do want? And what if the acceptance of those very things we are not happy about can in the end bring us greater happiness?

That is a pretty amazing paradox.

Let us examine this.

Upcoming Talks, Retreats, Events and Trainings

Coming Home Retreat - May 16-20, 2019, Ecology Retreat Centre near Orangeville, Ontario

ClearMind-PureHeart New Year's Meditation Retreat - January 4-6, 2019 at the Ecology Retreat Centre

Deep Calling - Finding Your Life Purpose  TBA

Inner Sovereignty - TBA in 2019