You have to do it by yourself,
but you don’t have to do it alone.




Awaken to the Beauty, Peace and Inner Strength of your True Self on the Coming Home Retreat

awakening retreat

 - an Enlightenment Intensive - Zoom Retreat

May 22 - 23, 2021

If you’re reading this, you're likely feeling empty, alone and a bit lost in life...or you  may have been walking a spiritual path for many years, yearning for that deep "aha" experience that will open you to an established connection to the wisdom and serenity within.

The thing is, even for us seekers sometimes life is just plain hard.

It’s full of beauty and wonderful things - but it’s also full of heartbreak.
Life feeds us but it can also break us.

So, how do we deal with it?

Well if you’ve got a few minutes I’d like to share with you a different path to deeper fulfillment you may not have tried (or even considered). 

A Different Path to the Real You

A lot of people I speak with secretly wish they could let go of the pressures of living in the rat race and come home to a deeper peace... the kind that many of the great spiritual teachers of the ages have spoken of. They want to feel more alive, happy, inspired and fully engaged with others. They want to reside in a sense of harmony with life and be a lot freer to totally be themselves.

But my guess is that you have been broken down a little or a lot by life (maybe slowly over the years or maybe all at once) to a point where you know you need to dig deeper. But there’s a good chance you feel lost as to how to go about that.

who am iSometimes you can feel like an actor wearing a mask on a long treadmill. You walk, talk, sit, drive, work, buy, eat, sleep and dream in an endless daily cycle. At the end of the week, sometimes you stare into the TV watching more actors and wondering “Is there more to life than this?” or “What happened to the person I thought I'd be when I was younger?”

You might notice a restlessness as if something is shifting or fragmenting under your feet. You may not know what it is or what needs to change or even if it’s a good thing. Something deep inside is calling the real you to come out but you feel trapped in the way you are supposed to be.

The emptiness can be downright painful. You might hide it well but it’s deep...slowly eating your soul.

As Stephen Jenkinson said, “It’s in the nature of being human to forget how to be one on occasion.” But what happens when we forget for a long time?" And how do we remember? Many of the people I have worked with are in the midst of the forgetting and don’t know how to get themselves back.

And it’s not for a lack of trying.

I know this all too well

In my twenties I spent 10 years trying to be happier, exploring every religion under the sun and reading so many books I could have started my own library.

I sat at the feet of so many gurus and instead of finding peace I got athletes foot. I tried the latest self-help books and videos about affirmations, positive thinking and “the secrets” but they didn’t do the trick. They actually made me more confused. The whole guru/follower thing literally gave me a rash so I tried being an independent seeker for awhile. But I got lost and felt incredibly lonely.

My head was so in the clouds with ideas I was no earthly good. One day, something very important occurred to me - that the easiest way to avoid meditation... is to read books about meditation. A wise Hawai'ian Kahuna once said, 'The shadow side of knowledge isn't ignorance. It's theory.'

I sadly realized that all my "great" concepts were just theory.

I threw away my books. I decided to find the truth for myself. It was then I discovered a method of paired self-inquiry with others that changed my life on a retreat called the Enlightenment Intensive. I broke through the lonely shell of my mind and experienced the magnificence of my true self.

What I Discovered is: 'You Have to Do it by Yourself and You Don't Have to Do it Alone'

That awakening experience inspired me to train in this method used on the Enlightenment Intensive. I have now changed the name of the retreat to something that I felt more true to what my experience of it was: 'Coming Home'  I have been so impressed with the consistent transformation in people's lives that I have led over 65 retreats over the past 30 years. 

oriah search for truthI have found the practice of Coming Home to be an invaluable experience along the journey of discovery. I more or less stumbled on my first one, not really knowing what I was getting myself into. However, it has had a lasting effect on my daily life. I feel a greater sense of confidence, equanimity and, surprisingly…wonder. The methodology combines a form of Zen koan practice with Western relational psychology, though it is not aligned with any theoretical or philosophical school. The format is simple and demanding. To discover the truth of ourselves and of existence, we must necessarily move beyond the numerous and ingenious devices we employ to avoid its raw reality. For some people, the search for that truth is the only really meaningful activity of life. I would recommend the practice to anyone who falls into that category. When I emerged from the retreat . . .all of my worries  about the future and my resentments about past hurts seemed, in that moment, very small when compared to the vastness that is both what I am and the reality in which I participate.

THE INVITATION by Oriah Mountain Dreamer. (c) 1999 published by Harper San Francisco. All rights reserved. Edited and presented with permission of the author

Find Your True Self on the Coming Home Retreat

experience of wholeness, completeness, peace and lightness

Coming Home (also known as the enlightenment intensive) is a beautiful
process that weaves together silent contemplation on a key question such as: "Who am I?" with authentic communication and empathetic listening with another participant. After 5 minutes the roles reverse for 40 minutes. There is a schedule of walks, meals, exercise periods and rest all in silence.

The goal of the retreat is to awaken to your true self beyond the social persona that traps you in loneliness, emptiness and pain and to bring you back to an experience of wholeness, completeness, peace and lightness of being. It’s like coming home after you have been lost for many years… only you come home to yourself.

What I see on just the first day of the 4 day retreat are people with their eyes widening, broad smiles, tears of joy and their bodies melting as the thousand stresses caused by the expectations of who they think they need to be, evaporate from their bodies.

By the 4th day they are shining, alive, deeply in touch with their true nature and so grateful that they have met other authentic seekers, like themselves. They have re-claimed their lost selves by themselves but they did not have to do it alone.

The next Coming Home Retreat is May 22-23, 2021 a zoom retreat

After a Coming Home Retreat Participants Commonly Report Feeling:

  • More authentic
  • Peace, contentment and vitality permeating their body
  • More centered and grounded
  • Loving-kindness towards themselves and others
  • Greater self-acceptance
  • Psychologically whole
  • More inner strength and inner resolve
  • Freer to express themselves around others
  • Improved intuitive ability
  • Enhanced and balanced energy levels

And Have a Greater Capacity to:

  • Be open and authentic in relationships
  • Persist and accomplish personal goals
  • Face and overcome problems and difficulties
  • Fully experience love, joy and happiness
  • Understand the deeper truths in traditional philosophy and religion
  • Achieve greater mutual understanding with others
  • Be assertive and communicate their needs
  • Find meaning, inspiration and insight in daily living
  • Make rapid progress in their personal and spiritual growth

profound experience at enlightenment retreatMy realization was a complete and utter knowing of the Truth. I saw myself exactly AS I AM. The beauty of it was beyond anything I could describe. I came to know that there is no beginning and no end to my being and that everything is always exactly as it should be. I felt that every single thing I did was being done for the first time. I wanted absolutely everyone in the world to experience what I had experienced! My experience at the retreat certainly was profound and came at a huge turning point in my life. Because of this sense of deep meaning and connection, I know that the human spirit has infinite possibility. What I became aware of on Russell's retreat has touched every aspect of my life. The depth of my gratitude has no words.

Brenda McMorrow – Recording Artist, Guelph, Ontario

Features of the Retreat

  • Zen-style self-inquiry with questions such as"who am I?" or "what is life?"practiced in a paired format with others to free you from layers of false beliefs so that you can awaken to the expansive aliveness of your true self.
  • Authentic communication and deep listening combined with silent contemplation to help you be seen, heard, understood and let go of years of suffering and access a deeper state of joy, self-acceptance and wholeness.
  • Agreements of non-judgement, non-interruption and confidentiality to help you bypass the subtle suppressions of "normal" relating that have socialized you to deny being yourself.
  • Structured schedule of contemplation, walks, sitting, meals and rest in a beautiful rural retreat centre to keep you focused to overcome the barriers that would stop you if you tried doing this by yourself at home
  • Invaluable training in communication and empathetic listening reinforced over 3 days that can improve your relationships after the retreat
  • A religious and philosophy free environment so that you can directly experience the truth for yourself without the impediment of dogma
  • Gentle guidance from trained staff available at any time all day during the retreat

power of self-discovery at retreatThe power of my self-discovery was enormous in my life and it has carried me through many struggles since. The place in my heart that was closed is now open and alive with the knowledge that I am me. There is no need for anything else. I am fulfilled with this gift. And I am thrilled to be me. I don’t know how else I could have ever come to the understanding that I am this infinite, completely perfect spirit. There is nothing more beautiful in life than the recognition of who you actually are!

Cheryl Laird, Counsellor, Guelph, Ontario

Are you interested in finding out if this retreat is a fit for you? Request a suitability interview at: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or call: 519-829-4149

Frequently Asked Questions

What is this thing called Awakening?


This phenomenon of 'coming home' in the west has been called, by Abraham Maslow, "Unitive consciousness" "Self-transcendence" or "Direct Experience." In eastern traditions it is labeled as awakening, enlightenment, illumination, self-realization, cosmic consciousness or satori.

Eckhart Tolle says this about awakening; “When you know who you truly are there is an abiding alive sense of peace. You could call it joy because that's what joy is: vibrantly alive peace. It is the joy of knowing yourself as the very life essence before life takes on form. That is the joy of Being, of being who you truly are.”

You’ve got to be kidding...awakening in 4 days?

You can come to the same awareness that many of the great spiritual teachers have had. After all they were ordinary folks just like you. The difference is that people like Buddha spent many years in meditation deepening and ripening their awakening to total enlightenment.

Just as technology has advanced in modern times, so too have spiritual and transformation techniques. When safe communication structure is added to the eastern method of self-inquiry, the results are remarkable. That moment of ‘coming home’ usually occurs to 30-90% of participants. Many of them are caught off guard and amazed at no longer having to spend months, years or even a lifetime to have that moment of ‘awakening’.

So once you experience your true self, that’s it. The search is over. Then the next project is to start living from the real you. That will continue to deepen what you have come to know.

You will be given instructions on how to do this on the last day of the retreat and in the EnLifenment program described below.

But the first step is to find out who you are. And, for most of us, that’s been a very hard first step. After all, many of us have spent a lifetime losing ourselves and being misled.

patAs a seasoned traveler of the Way, I can testify that this awakening technique works. As time goes on, I’m find I'm only interested in what works: this does. During the retreat, my realization was a slow and gradual one – which was exactly my intention. What’s more, as the weeks since the retreat have unfolded, I am delightfully surprised to discover that the retreat experience was only the beginning. My awakening process is very active and increasing in depth and clarity.Thank you Russell for keeping this going and offering it to as many people as possible, as well as for your gentle guiding presence.

Pat Parisi, Employment Counsellor, Toronto, ON

Why can’t I just do this on my own?

This question can be answered with an honest question. If you were able to do this alone how come you are still searching?

I see the tragedy of this over and over again. ...doing it alone.

As the old saying goes, "if you don’t go within, you go without." And it’s the one thing many don’t actually do enough of. They think about about it... talk about it. But when they sit down to do it, they get bored, lost or lose steam and then I see them years later and they are still stuck. They’ve given up. It breaks my heart.

E.I. ParticipantsThere is a great power in coming to together as a group. The energy of the group is more than the sum of everyone’s individual energy. That energy propels you to make much greater progress than doing this on your own within the ongoing distractions in life.

But more importantly I’ve been guiding people for over 30 years on this journey to self. I’ve been up every blind alley there is and helped thousands of people in a very short time get through barriers they have struggled with by themselves for years. You can take advantage of my experience.

Once again: you have to do this by yourself but you don’t do it alone.

Is this just another "You'll be happy for the rest of your life" thing?

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To be realistic, awakening does not mean that you will no longer have any problems or you will be in a state of bliss or happiness for the rest of your life. What it does mean is that you will be living the rest of your life more from the inner strength of your real self and less from the insecurity of a social personality.

You will be more able face and transform the obstacles of your life into valuable growth experiences and achieve the kind of success in life defined by who you really are, not others.
And because we all want to relate to others who are real, you are the best gift you can give to the world.

For me it’s this: coming home to my true self (the real experience of it in my body not the theory of it) is the most precious gift I have ever given to myself. And because we all want to relate to others who are real, you are the best gift you can give to the world.

Would this be something you want? If so there is more.

What about after the retreat when I meet the challenges of my life?


After the Coming Home retreat you are supported. The main self inquiry practice in the retreat ends on a Sunday evening. In the next half day you are re-introduced to your normal way of relating to others. You become aware of the challenges you may face and develop strategies to deal with them.

You then "graduate" into the EnLifenment Program included at no extra cost (a $750 value - see below) that is designed to help you live in a deeper connection to your true self.

You can choose to become part of a community called "The Circle of True Friends" who have shared deeply in your transformation journey. Once again, you have to do this by yourself but now you don’t have to do this alone.

Bonus En-Lifenment Program Included in the Tuition

  • Six weeks (once a week) of self-inquiry"Practicing Presence" exercises done with a fellow retreatant by skype, phone or in person. A $250.00 value
  • 2 one-to-one mentorship calls spaced one month apart to address any challenges living from your new awareness. A $250.00 value.
  • "I am Calm" Guided Meditation CD. A $25.00 value
  • An on-going monthly "Circle of True Friends" support group A $200.00 value

milesFor my own experience, I awakened to peals of laughter – my own! – And to the realization that I was ME, only me, totally me and that I had always been and always would be ME! There was nowhere I needed to go and no place needed I to be. I was whole and completely present. I can say, without reservation, that the experience transformed my life. Prior to coming to the session, my days and nights, like old chewing gum, were beginning to lose their flavour… meaning had gradually seeped out of my life, like air leaking from an old tire until it had become flat. My landscape was slowly losing its colour and in danger of turning to monochrome. After I realized my true nature, and recognized myself for who I was and always had been, I experienced the world as if for the very first time… and it was BEAUTIFUL! It still is!

Miles Murphy, Computer Programmer, London, England

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Is this retreat for me?

It could be if:

  • You resonate with what you've read here so far and are feeling alone on the spiritual path.
  • You want to live a deeper more engaged life, more connected with others.
  • You are feeling empty and you want to feel whole and complete again.
  • You are looking back on your life and want to find “the meaning of it all.”
  • You’ve been on a spiritual path for a long time, almost given-up and want to have the big“AHA”experience
  • You are a seeker and not interested in taking on more religious beliefs and you want to awaken to the truth for yourself
  • You are able to take 1 day away from your job and family

The Retreat is not for you if:

  • You follow a religious belief system and are satisfied you know what the "Truth" is.
  • You just want to go to a spa or a relaxation get-away and have a vacation.
  • You are not motivated to delve into the deeper questions like: "Who am I?", "What is my purpose?", "What is life?" or "What are others?"
  • You cannot take the allotted time away from family or work.

 enlightenment retreat reviewHad I not attended your retretimeat back in the spring, I would not now have the unshakeable strength of knowing deeply who and what I am, which sustains me on a moment to moment basis in a quiet, steadfast, joyful way.  I don’t know why nor can I explain it but I continue to wake up happy every day, thankful every day and smiling at work even though I’m in an impossible situation. I have more energy now than I’ve ever had.

Gail Buss, Retired Office Manager,  Philadelphia, Penn

Can I talk to someone to find out if the retreat is a fit, without a big "sales pitch"?

what do you want from lifeI ask that people set-up a 10-15 minute suitability interview with me before the retreat. Together we will explore where you are at in your life and what you want from the retreat.

I’ll explain the schedule, the guidelines and the self-inquiry technique used. I’ll go over any concerns you have about diet, accommodation and health challenges you may have and then you can decide if the retreat is a fit for you. There are no subtle sales techniques.

I only want people on Coming Home who are right for it. It makes for a better retreat for everyone and for the staff. If you decide it is not a fit, I'll suggest something else.

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enlightenment retreat review and praiseI am still in awe of my experience at your retreat. I can definitely say it was one of the most powerful, beautiful and expansive experiences I have ever had. And now that I am back home in 'the real world' I am still enjoying the benefits. My experience of the Truth has so much more depth to it. I feel a renewal of energy and passion on my journey. I am ready to experience more and to share more of Who I Really Am. I am blessed.

Dianne Yeo, Meditation Teacher, London, ON


So, that’s it. Thank you for staying with me. Remember, whether it’s this retreat or someone else’s:

You have to do it by yourself ... and you don’t have to do it alone.

I pray that you find the perfect support, here or elsewhere, for this challenging, beautiful and wonderful journey of coming home. 

and if this retreat is calling you and you want to jump right in, the details are below:


Retreat Details 

Dates for 1 Day Retreat: May 22 to 23, 2021


 4 Day1 Day 
Tuition  560 $75 -$150 sliding scale 
Meals and Lodging for 5 days and 4 nights  630 n/a 
2 Follow-up mentorship calls       included n/a 
Guided Meditation CD  included n/a 
Total Investment   as above 

Government sales tax of 13% is extra 
(Scholarships for individuals on a limited income are available. Contact Russell for details.)

***NOTE- Sometimes the Coming Home retreat is followed by the Clear/Mind - Pure/Heart meditation retreat  to help you integrate your awakening and teach you mediation skills that you can bring into your life. To find out more about this retreat click on: Clear/Mind - Pure/Heart.

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 Where is the 4 day retreat when is it presented?

spiritual retreat in ontario canadaThe retreat is held at the Ecology Retreat Centre in Southern Ontario accessible 50 minutes by transit from the Toronto Airport. It offers a tranquil environment, in nature where you can hear the wind in old-growth trees, the babbling of crystal  creeks and the sound of night frogs in one of the most beautiful areas in Ontario: the Hockley Valley. ontario retreatIt is nestled just outside of the town of Orangeville, within the magical Hills of the Niagara Escarpment, between the Bruce Trail and the beautiful Nottawasaga River.

Delicious vegetarian meals prepared by a French chef are served buffet style. Alternative diets can be arranged. Accomodation is in a modern spacious lodge, 2 or 3 per room with single rooms available at an extra cost.

Words are so inadequate when I try to describe the immense gratitude I feel. I am now moving through my life with new eyes, new ears, and a new voice; and feeling so much more peaceful, alive, and present in this world. Thank you for holding the retreat space in such a patient, gentle, loving, and compassionate way.

Sekoiaa Lake, Peterborough, ON

Retreat Leader

Hi. This is me Russell Scott. I am one of the new generation of "no dogma teachers" and  the author of the acclaimed book: "Awakening the Guru in You". I've led over 300 retreats Russell Scott, Awakening Master and Retreat Leaderin Canada and the USA for the past 35 years. Many years ago I left the corporate world as a successful enrollment director for a national scholarship foundation to work as a counselor in a treatment centre in Northern Ontario and then moved on to own the Ecology Retreat Centre business near Orangeville where I pioneered programs in green building, sustainable living and spiritual awakening. As an “Awakening facilitator” I've helped 1000’s of people in my one-to-one and group programs break through past limitations so that they can walk in the beauty, honesty and magnificence of who they really are. I have to say that my greatest joy in life is watching people fall off their seats in fits of laughter when they realize their true nature.